Dear Girl, Keep Pushing—You’re Becoming Her

Girl, I truly love you.

I see you. I see the strength behind your tears, the fire beneath your quiet moments, and the purpose in your every step—even when you feel unsure. Keep pushing forward. There’s no need to dwell on the past. Yes, it happened. Yes, it hurt. But what matters most is how you rise from it.

Stay focused. Stay determined. Keep progressing—but never, ever settle for anything less than the deep, lasting fulfillment that comes from Jesus. Nothing else compares to the peace and purpose He gives. I love you, girl, and I’m proud of how far you’ve come.

This journey hasn’t been easy. In fact, there were days when giving up felt like the only option. But you didn’t. You endured. You pushed through. And because of that, you’ve accomplished things that once felt impossible.

Your brokenness taught you lessons that books never could. It gave you experience. Your healing? It’s giving you wisdom—and that wisdom is shaping you into the very woman your younger self prayed for. That little girl inside you can finally exhale, knowing you’ve got her now.

And the beauty of your healing? It’s not just for you.

Now your children get to experience the love, guidance, and emotional safety of a healed mother. They get the best version of you—the one who can acknowledge her flaws, take accountability, and model what real growth looks like.

You’re becoming the mentor, the nurturer, the leader you never had. You’re learning how to build healthy relationships, not from survival but from wholeness. And girl, that’s everything.

You are a vessel. You’re walking in your calling, doing what you love, and stepping boldly into the purpose God uniquely designed for you. Don’t forget this: every single day, you carry the responsibility—not just to discover your best self—but to help others find theirs too.

Keep shining. Keep healing. Keep becoming.

 You’re HER!!!

And you’re doing just fine.

-Chantelle aka Telle